Midwest2- `”you weren’t reading my post. I specifically referred to situations where the guy is 10-15 years older than the girl. You said that your grandparents WERE THE SAME AGE. That’s a different case altogether.
We’re talking situations where the guy is old enough to be his own kids’ grandfather.”`
I did read your post. You didn’t understand mine. When it comes to life and death, there are no hard and fast rules. Even without being in the medical field, I know many young people who have died. If two people get to know each other and like each other, who cares besides you and a few like you, what their age difference is? Acc. to your train of thought, just for example, (in the CR there has been a lot of discussion regarding smoking), smokers shouldn’t get married, even if they are the same age as the woman because they are going to die much younger than her!