Does anyone really think that the Klal doesnt realize that being involved in Shidduchim is a Mitzvah- they say it in davening every day- “Hachnosas Kallah” doesnt only mean Tzedaka. Tell me if Im wrong!
Ive been doing it for 30+ years, and none of my friends or acquaintances would do it even for money, Kal V Chomer for no money!!! Theyre NOT interested!