well then…
1.If it’s a situation where my getting involved will help, then i try to stop it. If not, i try to go over to the one being bullied afterwards and comfort her. And when applicable i try to speak to the bully or go to someone who can influence her… But there are those times when I’m too chicken 🙁 i’m working on it
2. turn bright red! i tend to put off admitting it until i have to… and i have to force the words out
3. freak, say a perek of tehillim, adn then either check it out or try to figure out what it is without getting out of bed (but thats more cuz i’m too lazy than being scared) there is one exception to this-if the noise is coming from the basement and i’m down there alone at 1 am, i say my perek as i’m runnign up the stairs (but then i usually get ahold of myself and go back!)
4. i don’t drive yet, so no worries there!
5. tell them as tactfully as possible, make it sound like the problem is with me, and things like that 🙂