as the Mom of 2 married daughters,(29 & 21), I wanted a boy with good midos who would take care of my daughter, & care about her & her needs more than anything else (obviously not speaking about Hashem et al.)
before I get trounced on.. I’m not necessarily speaking about financially… one of my sons-in-law has been in Kollel 7 1/2 yrs now, & the other is an enterprising ‘blue-collar’ worker of sorts.