Reply To: Judging L'Kula vs Judging L'Chumra

I’m currently learning a mussar sefer which says,the rule for others is to be dan l’kaf z’chus.The mussar is for YOU.Don’t confuse the two!

I once put a Sholom Bayis article in my husband’s pajama drawer.

Suffice it to say:That doesn’t work.