If WE could only learn this and teach this to others, I am sure will will hasten the coming of Moshiach. Truly we are too harsh on other people and maybe we should be a little harsher on ourselves to keep from judging others. EVEN if you DO know the whole story because you only know what people allow to get out and NOT what goes on behind closed doors.
Sometimes you see someone and you may not know if they are on their way up or on their way down. Maybe she gained a few pounds and the skirt is riding up and it used to be longer or it came back from the cleaners and shrunk and she didn’t realize. These things do happen, do we ever think about it or do we automatically have an evil and bad thought in our mind?
We need to train ourselves to mind our own business and not be “got’s farzorger”. A pleasant smile and a warm greeting for those who go a madreigah further will make a good impression on another person. The more people who make good impressions on someone the more they will want to aspire to move up a madreigah. The more negative stares and comments the more they choose to be in your face.