Reply To: Would you say no to a guy/girl after a first date for looks alone?

I once heard a Rav (forgot who) quoted as saying that if one does not like their date’s looks, they should keep going until the 3rd date. If it still bothers you then, it’s time to break up. And don’t say “it’s just chitzoniyus, it doesn’t matter” – that’s what you should have been telling yourself for the past 10 years. But now, if there’s no attraction there’s no attraction.