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i will be glad to address this issue. I have personal experience. Here is the problem. the brother may be a wonderful boy with issues you think you can deal with or dimsiss. However< and this is a big however, you must understand that the issue is that the children often come out with the middos of the brother. and often times it is very difficult for parents to interact with a child who has “foreign: middos, meaning they are not middos you have been raised with in your family, and have no experience dealing with. If you do not like what you see in the siblings and parents, remember that it is true you arent marrying them, but you WILL have a child with some or all of those middos. MOST LIKELY