“I am doing so unbelievably well that I feel like I’m ready to move onto the next stage in life”
Does your healthcare professional feel the same way? If so, consider making one of the dates a joint visit. If he can handle that, you know you’ve got a winner. If he hears the clean bill of health from a pro (as opposed to a panicky parent) he’ll know how to handle the situation.
As far as your not being able to believe that anyone will accept you as is, don’t be so sure. If he’s the one, he’ll believe in you