Reply To: Of your Shidduch related decisions what would you change if you could

There are lot of things that go into hygiene -some people can manage with showers twice a week and some need once a day. There are no hard and fast rules, it’s individualized. There are some societies where the avg. man doesn’t wear antiperspirant/deoderant. In E. Yisroel the avg. frum male doesn’t; I guess it doesn’t bother the women there because that is what they are used to. If it bothers the spouse what the other spouse is doing, for sure the one responsible for the problem should make every effort to change. As the saying goes -“The nose -knows!”