mw13 – sorry, I am not such a tzaddik that I can justify allowing a person to be severely injured for my so called frumkeit. I think it would be a shtus to not save her. Also, I want to say that (without getting into particulars) I was on a date where I had to touch for a safety issue. The girl felt very awkward to say the least. I felt horrible that I made her feel that way and apologized profusely to the point of pretty much crying. However – and I told her this – I didn’t regret it one bit and I would have done it again. I even told my rebbi about it the next day.
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