Funny, by Chasidim they have none of these issues. Meeting takes place in girl’s house (maybe HE get’s walked to the door – maybe not – no prob), no problem about where to go out, alot of extra anxiety simply falls away. Generally no communication during engagement (no one put on the spot – words we’ll have to eat the rest of our marriage), mixed head-table (Uh Oh – what do I talk / joke about for the rest of our wedding). Then the issue of finances – I think they have it easier – mostly a joint affair.
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