Candy, I don’t understand the equality of the two sides. A single girl is alone. She has no husband or kids, and doesn’t know if she’ll ever have either. She is probably lonely and in her parents house, and feels like she’ll never have one of her own.
A married girl at least has a husband, and can feel like she is not a total reject, and can have a Jewish household. True she does not have kids yet, but nobody looks down at her because of that. Everybody knows kids are a gift min hashamayim.
How could not having a husband or kids ever possibly equal having a husband, but no kids.
Please clarify.