Call your father and tell him straight out that while you’d love him to come, he should be prepared to see your mother taking an active role in the party. It will really hurt you, and emotionally scar your little munchkin if he acts out at the party. So, the choice is entirely his. He could behave at the party, or come by two hours later for a private gathering of celebration. Be HONEST with him, it works as long as there is no abuse involved.
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