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Texting? Way outta line. He should be calling your house, and no where else. Unless the two of you are in your very late 20s – early 30s, this is a huge no-no.

Otherwise, drop him, and tell the shadchan why. And don’t feel obligated to “give him a chance”. His parents did a rotten job of prepping him for the dating scene.

On the topic of vibes, someone (either you, your parent, a married sibling) should ask to see this person before doing any checking whatsoever. On paper, everyone looks amazing.

Get a visual, then do your homework.

But texting? This guy needs to be read the riot act.