i just joined in and this topic is really getting funny, do you want a babysitter, then clean up your house,hide all the things you don’t want her to see, and put out the food you let her eat like the nosh or the things your kids can’t have,or the ones that are healthy especially for your spouse’s diet,put your phone number on the fridge and also leave a cell number,any instuctions needed,you could also leave hatzalah’s number in case needed if she doesn’t know it.
by the way the minute you leave the house until you come back home you should not think about your house.
yes,trust the person you left in your house.