Wolf, I did many times, and I backed up her points and points to respect ALL babysitters and their needs many times. The fact that some here just want to defend bad behavior is an oddity. Please review this thread and you will see just how many times I responded to the fact that sitters need to be respected and their issues need to be respected whether it is to pay them the going rate, or have the wife drive them home if that is what their inyan of tznius requires. All the issues that these girls have are valid and need to be worked out beforehand and never left to the last minute.
The fact that this particular young lady has a huge ego and throws her own bad attitude into this forum and some here keep defending her attitude instead of just her points is beyond comprehension. No, it is NOT OK to basically “yell” at others that ‘YOU PEOPLE” who beg me to come babysit for you don’t know how good you have it. I am so in demand you are lucky I even bother to come to you. These are MY rules and YOU “guys” need to follow them or I won’t choose to come watch your little brats anymore because I don’t like to babysit anyway, I only do it because you people annoy me to death the way you BEGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG me to come, you are so pathetic. YOU people… you think I don’t have a life, well I do, but you keep stealing my life from me forcing me to babysit for you, like you going out with your friends is more important than me having fun with my friends…yada, yada, yada, yada………..how dare you come back to your own home and not call to warn me…. I was so comfortable I kicked off my shoes in the middle of the room and was just chillin and you caught me off guard…how embarrassing….I didn’t have a chance to pull myself together and make a better impression….you saw the real me….
Can you guys just re-read her posts and get a real true understanding of what I am saying. Maybe it is time she apologized and accepted the fact that she presented her case rudely and that many of us stood up for her points and not necessarily her attitude. I am not in the habit of accepting unacceptable behavior or making excuses for it. Sorry.