Reply To: After the boy says yes…..

A girl usually does not know when a shidduch is presented to a boy and they shouldn’t. Once the boy said yes, you have to give the girl’s side at least a week to work on it. Anything under a week is ridiculous and it puts too much pressure on the family for an answer. A week is a respectable amount of time to get information and make a decision. If they take longer than a week, they risk the chance that the boy says yes to another girl as well and he won’t be available when they get back to the shadchan.