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As it happens I am the Queen of Fast Responses, I usually only need a couple of hours w the boys info to decide if its for me or not….
That being said, I realize that not everyone is as decisive and able as I am 😉 SO being that boys, in my experience, NEVER take less than a week (in a real shidduch situation) the girl is ENTITLED to one (1) week.
The amount of Gaavah a boy has to insist an answer within 2 days or else he is moving on to the next name, after he spent 3 weeks turning over every invisible leaf, is mind blowing.
(Dont say its a mans world, because there ARE men out there w middos too.)