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I understand that, but dont you see that it does?
Giving a “Yes” to two girls is a game, its called Tag. Whoever catches the Boy first gets him, but what of the other girl, who took an extra day? In your scenario we werent even talking weeks, it could have been hours or minutes!
Boys may think that they are clever and they are going to “play the game right” but when you are playing w someone’s emotions there are no winners only losers, on both ends. Because although you may have snagged the Prize, Hash-m is still keeping score of who you hurt along the way, and in Yiddishkeit the ends dont justify the means.