Reply To: Predicting success of marriages and Kesher with a Rov

AinOhdMilvado, “I feel before a person says he or she is ready for a shidduch, they should think long and hard and deep about who THEY are and who THEY want to be for the future.

Only then is there a chance to find the right “ezer k’negdo”.

Good point, but many straight out of Sem girls, etc. (some guys as well) are in a cloud, and wouldnt dream at that point in their lives that they might need/want something else, down the line. So I think readiness to be flexible is the key.