aries2756: Thank you very much for your words of consolation. Returning full circle to the topic of Emunas Chachomin with regard to Shidduchim, I maintain that, had I listened to this Gadol, in the Zechus of passing this difficult Nisayon, it would be impossible that any harm could have come to me, so I humbly disagree with you on that item. Hagaon Rav Moshe Feinstein ZT”L said with regard to another great Posek (of whom Reb Moshe ZT”L said “I don’t come up to his ankles”!) that it would be impossible that any harm could have happened to an Agunah he allowed to remarry (i.e. it was IMPOSSIBLE that if Hashem guided this Posek to permit the Agunah to remarry, that the original husband would still be alive). Similarly, it would have been impossible that had I listened to this Gadol, that the ill-fated marriage would still have come to be. Emunas Chachomim, in my opinion, is the one of the most essential keys to success in Yiddishe marriages.
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