Here’s my thoughts. Of course we must always consult a Rav.
but just thinking…On Friday night (Shabbos) secular Jews are
driving around, getting together with friends, driving to movie theaters, restaurants, driving to a Broadway show..etc
It’s not like they are sitting home looking at the four walls on Friday night and that they would specifically be driving ONLY that evening to go to your Shabbos table. Wouldn’t it be better if they are already out on the town Friday in their car traveling for entertainment with friends that they could have a better purpose for the evening…..Joining you at a Shabbos table and being inspired and reawakening the “Pintele Yid” .
Just my thoughts. Gut Shabbos!