why would a woman want to change a man to be like herself?
obvious answer: because we like ourselves. 😉
truthfully, we don’t want to change a man to be like us, but rather to help him be the best that he can be. we marry and see all the great potential and realize that we’re best equipped to help that guy actualize his potential. (not social worker stuff; we respect him and realize we’re his other half; and we are his eizer k’negdo, so we can with chochma help change him). though the good wives never admit that that’s what they’re doing. 😉