Canine, thanks for the words in bold.
And yes, a second income is necessary but if the husband starts working sooner rather than later (wouldn’t it be interesting to see the learner/earner concept expanded….) there is less pressure on the wife and she may be able to work part time.
Mikehall, I’m not going to go there but I will say that they’re not so pashut for kids who haven’t been through the feeder school systems, who are being addressed here. And they’re pricey, too.