Reply To: Ladies, do you say ??? ???? ???? and ??? ???? ?????

Okay, after speaking to my daughter again, there seems to have been some kind of miscommunication (why doesn’t spell check like that word?). Her teachers did not teach her to say ???? and ????. They taught her to say what it says in her siddur, ??? and ???, and that was the way she had been saying it in 1st and 2nd grade. Now that she’s in 3rd grade, her teacher told them to say the brachos quietly on their own, and she says that most of the girls in her class say ???? and ????, so she assumed that that must be the preferred nusach and starting saying it that way herself. I don’t know why the girls in her class are saying it this way, but I told her that she should go back to saying it the way she used to say it until we research this further. I do feel a little better now knowing that this came from her classmates and not her teachers.