chesed – I believe your example would fall under my statement of “should we feed them every shmutz in the world? No”
I have one word for you. Balance.
Growing – “but i guarantee you the music in their stores would have only been jewish”
I am going to disagree with you. The Jews in Egypt were applauded for keeping 3 things: names, dress, language.
They were cited for visiting the circuses and theatres of the Mitzrim. I think it would be safe to say they were enjoying their music.