MiI -” but have you ever dressed a sleeping child sitting in a chair”
When my kids lived with me, I don’t ever recall dressing them while sleeping, only undressing them. If this is a daily occurance, then there is a problem. Kids should wake up and then get dressed for the day.
“I end up leaning forward from the waist so I can see what I’m doing.”
Once you visualize it before you bend, just feel for it in the stoop position. DO NOT bend with your waist.
There are definitely activities that you shouldn’t be doing. Most activities can be done like described above; for the few that can’t, this is where your older kids and hubby come into play.