Reply To: Women & Girls Out There: I Really, Really Need Your Help!!!!

also – very important – find someone who she, herself asks da’as torah – so you’re not just getting her own opinion. i’ve had many times the people i get advice from get back to me only after they got da’as torah, or else they’ve already asked this question for themselves. you want da’as torah, not just one woman’s opinion. if her husband, her father, or her rav is a possek and she gets advice from him, good person to ask.