Stamford –
Unless you’re talking about clinical depression which needs medication, what may snap you out of your rut, is DATING. True, you may not have the firepower to keep up with the A++ crowd (but neither can I, so don’t feel bad)but to someone like yourself (your age, background, interests, ect) you are JUST THE PERSON THEY ARE WAITING FOR! You have much to offer, and just need to be a bit confident in yourself and your abilities.
If your condition is indeed medical, that needs to be admitted to by the end of the 2nd date. If you can make it thru 2 full dates, chances are they are seeing you for what you really are, and will understand that your condition is managable.
Believe in yourself!