AZ, your advice might work for the under 24 crowd girls. But, once a girl exceeds 24, the pool of boys ready willing and able to get married is comparatively so small, we’re giving Shadchanim an inhumanly difficult task of streching one boy for a few girls, which does NOT work in our religion. In the game of musical chairs more girls are left with no chair than with a chair, after 24. This causes the guys to feel theres less of an urgency for them to commit. The comparatively few desirable guys get better and better and more and more girls thrown at them, with strong emotion, and pressure, as time goes on.
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