cshapiro-
You are right, no guy has the right to judge a girl about things he can’t possibly relate to. In gemara and halacha we aren’t judging, only figuring out what is assur and mutar. I hope you can understand that, and I should hope that nothing more than that goes on in these threads.
charliehall-
Not true! Most things that are asur are not ???? ??? ?????
I think his point was that it would then be considered ???????? ??????. Which itself is a machlokes rishonim if it is ???? ??? ?????.