whatrutalkingabt, I agree with you. Some things are uncompromisable. So he/she is shorter/taller than you wanted – in the greater spectrum, how much does that matter? If there’s a blemish in middos and/or emotional wellbeing that’s another story. There are things one cannot settle on.
When trying to push a shidduch, someone said to me, “Maybe it’s not the right one, but is it the wrong one?”
In my opinion, if it’s not right it’s wrong! You can’t force a square peg into a round hole.