Reply To: It's a secret!

Message to all~

Although it may surprise some of you, (espesh bpt) I’m not 94!

K, take a HUUUGE breath.

Now that you have recovered from that piece of tremendously unbelievable information…

I’m not talking abt a birth or an engagement, but something much smaller; this friend of mine just wanted to keep the secret ’till it happened.

Should I just go back to the person who I discussed it with, and tell her not to pass on the info to anyone, and to act surprised to the ‘surpriser’ when it happens? And should I should tell the girl with the secret that I told someone, or let her think that she’s surprising that girl (along with everyone else who will be surprised?) which would probably make her happy – Did you follow that?

observanteen~ I didn’t realise that it was a secret, until I spilled the beans. Otherwise I wouldn’t have said a word! It was more like, I was just excitingly discussing what was gonna happen with a friend, until I realised.

m in Israel~ Is it considered revealing a confidence, if I didn’t know that she wanted to keep it a secret? It isn’t something that I’d assume would be a secret- but I guess I was wrong…

Any other suggestions on what I should do?

And, was it really truly to speak about it to others, should I have asked her ‘is it a secret/ surprise’?

Thanks!