in addition, eclipse~ I’m sure you realize that I just gave you the cold hard facts… omitting ALL the painful details, & agmus nefesh.
we spent soooo many, tooo many sleepless nights in fear for our sons’ well-being (to put it sanitized/ meaning: read- lives). I wish I could give you concrete answers or advice, but every child & their problems is different. but I know you are a woman of great strength & great faith; you havta do your hishtadlus (w/ Hashem).