Gumball, don’t despair. There are two series of books for learning basic math. One is “(fill in algebra, geometry, etc.) Made Simple.” The “Made Simple” series is really good. Another resource is the Schaum’s Outline series. Go to an English (i.e. not a sefer-store) bookstore and ask the clerk for math study aids. There are lots of good books that explain things step by step with illustrations and practice problems. Could be your tutor isn’t in tune with how you think and you’re reacting by feeling hopeless.
I had to take the Graduate Record Exam over again eight years ago (think SAT wquared), and used these books. I actually brought my math score up 150 points. They work, and you can use them yourself and at your own speed.
BTW, do your tutor and math teacher make comments to you like, “How come you’re smart and can’t do this? What’s wrong with you?” That sort of stuff can turn you off pretty quickly.
There could also be a brain maturation factor involved. I hadn’t a clue what math was about when I took AP algebra in 11th grade. I just couldn’t see the point of it either. I also couldn’t see (hear) the point of Baroque music, which is very formal and a little “mathematical.” Three years later, suddenly I liked math and Bach too. Your brain doesn’t stop developing until you’re twenty or so – maybe you just need a little time to appreciate some things.