Mistama I think its a pela that our youth cannot express themselves in a proper lashon. When I was in school thirty years ago, I first did yeshivah ketana and gedolah to brush up on my learning with the Aibeshter’s help, and then went to Colombia college to learn basic secular knowledge while learning in the Mir in Brooklyn. Now my children are enrolled in Bais Yaakov, and they tell me that the girls shouldnt go to college, because they’ll be married by then to a yungerman learning in a kollel with no parnassa. I dont understand why this derech is looked down upon.
A gute nacht un zise droymer
Moshe