i also get so nervous from this. someone who is very close to me always tells me, “You worry about You” i once asked her what that really meant and she said that you shouldn’t nitpick at others bad deeds, that it’s between him and Hashem.
But i get so nervous because i Love the person that’s totally doing the wrong thing and i want to them something and help them and try to convince them and i always thought we are all responsible for one another so how can this person who’s close to me [and tells me , “you worry about you”, ]be right? or maybe she’s not?