Reply To: shabbos invitations

Again, she gets insulted very easily. If she asks me to go somewhere with her(and of course the kids) she gets insulted if i say no. She offered for me to send my baby there next year and when I said no, she was insulted. All in all it’s a difficult situation.

Smartcookie-I eat by lots of people around my community. and she knows that. But if the food is bad or the kids are misbehaving we dont go back. We once went somewhere where the father took the kids and threw him across the room(im not kidding). my husband said we are never going there again. but then the guy did a chessed for us so we had to go back. that time the kids were semi-behaved but still we havent really gone back there.

oomis-i agree with you 100% but im not here to discuss kids and behavior. i was just trying to find out some advice. BTW(since we live in the same community) I saw two cute little boys on Shabbos and i wish you much nachas from them!