It’s true, the thing most former older singles regret once they are married, is the worrying, the fear, the unhappiness over the situation, because once you are used to those feelings they are hard to dispel when the situation changes.
As a b”H former older (like, close to 40 when I married) single, I wish that I could have had the strength to be happier during that time.
Most of all I wish I had listened to some shalom bayis and parenting classes! They are widely available, for example on, among others, Kol Haloshon and the Akeres HaBayis hotlines. Prepare yourselves, it will be worth it.
Hatzlacha rabbah, and we hope to hear besuros tovos bekarov!