Reply To: "Prayer" on behalf of Shidduch-seekers in pain

chalilavchas: I fully agree wih you – please give us tips on how we can be of help especially for those who are not big time “social-bugs” and don’t know many singles well. Also, I live in a small Jewish community and don’t get to know many singles.

While Hishtadlus is certainly vital and encouraged, we must always bear in mind what (my Rebbe, in the name of the) Chazon Ish, ZT”L said: The person who Davens for another’s need accomplishes more (down here in THIS world) for the one in need than the person who physically is Mishtadel to help the same needy individual.