Aries- I’m a young mother of a few (figure about how old I can be).
Yes, I’ve been involved in Shidduchim a lot since my mom is a shadchan.
And boy oh boy I used to get loaded with info calls.(Much less these days).
Please don’t get offended. Your way isn’t only the right way. I was just wondering about you specifically telling the caller- the shidduch isn’t for you. How do you know that?