No one should ask you to do something that is assur across the board. The question is degrees of assering. For HER it may be assur, based on her rov or hashkafa. Period. However, those who hold it is not assur, do so specifically BECAUSE of the good things such as shiurim that can be found on the Internet. So while she might not be allowed to use it because she has a p’sak not to, it might be ok for her to ask someone else to, for a good purpose. Her issur is not necessarily someone else’s. And before anyone thinks of arguing about the issur of using the internet, please note – we are all here on-line reading this. If you truly hold that it is assur, buh bye.
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