Reply To: When young adult leaves to be Frei

Update to “Young adult chooses to have nothing to do with parents, but might, down the line, have some contact with siblings”:

Young adult lives at home but says theyre no longer frum, they dont believe, theyre culturally religious and does their own thing outside of the house. This young adult used to be the frummest in the family and class (role model type).

What is the most effective approach here? Has anyone had a similar situation?

How do you love a child who you feel is stabbing you and the ideals you and past generations held dear in the heart?