Of course- I AGREE with you 10000% percent!!!
Im speaking as a girl in the shidduch world and setting people up- i cannot agree with you more.
I have spoken to many people, saw and heard way too many incidents that i agree that one who is dating should either/have a a) an older. experinced, and intelligent indiviual to guide them
b) a RAV!!!! DAAS TORAH is SO SO important!!
c) If one needs to seek help. guidance/ mentoring/life- dating coach- SO BE IT!! there is NOTHING wrong with having a professional guidance. People get defensive when you say the word- thereapy/ psychologist..etc…the above terms used I think is appropriate and a less “needy” feeling- which in all honesty there is nothing wrong.
So yes, getting yourself the people you need to aquire the proper tools and guidance is very commendable and should be taken to use!
Good Luck!!