Reply To: Guys who reject most of hundred girls they date- are they "ON the Derech"?

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minyan gal
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Ofcourse: The fellows that you are talking about – do you happen to know how old they are now? I think that many of these failed dates (and marriages) stem from the guys being too young. Even is they are extremely frum, 19 – 22 is really too young, particularly for a man. By the time a lot of these young men reach the age of 30, they have been married for many years and have large families. I think at some point, some of them realize that the have so much responsibility and it was heaped upon them at such a young age that they have never had the chance to “live” and they start to feel suffocated. Just my opinion.