I know of a girl who put in effort to make herself look appropriate – more than usual. The fellow, who was coming in from middle of the USA, ended up showing up at least two hours later than intended. Okay, understandable. Why didn’t he think ahead and take a nap at least or something so he wouldn’t have been tired out? The shadchon told the girl that, in a nutshell, she wasn’t attractive enough!
There are mitigating factors here for the boy’s side – but at the same time, to stop after going out once in such a circumstance . . .