aries, ask them why is this happening. Most of them will give it to you in a one word sentence “HYPOCRISY”.
IMHO, definitely a very large part of it! Now what do we do about it? I think by and large, the common folk is trying their best, with all the koichos they have, to be the best role models they can possibly be. What’s your opinion about those who are not the common folk’s (role models other than family members) hypochrisy and how it can be improved? I think thats crucial.