please try and help her or stay out of it
I *am* trying to help.
Yes, I know some might say that any suggestion that she find a way to shorten her davening is apikorsus or the like. I don’t believe so. I think she can find a way to make her davening meaningful and *still* be within a reasonable time frame.
But what the heck. We all know that modus operendi around here has always been to tear people down rather than help them, right? So certainly I *must* have been trying to be negative and harmful to her.
The Wolf