Reply To: shidduchim…?

makes sense…my rov knows me quite well…and yeah. ive just been turned off from what ive heard and read about the whole shadchan thing…seems too impersonal…too much like a business deal. like the parents sitting talking money while the couplke to be makes awkward small talk over a cup of seltzer…just doesnt seem right to me.

i have a pretty good idea of what i want and most of it involves personality interests and intelligence. i obviously have a few looks requirements id like met but TBH its not as important to me as the girl being someone id want to talk to for hours on end.

as far as looks go…im pretty much fine with plain. plain is perfectly ok as long as, like i said, im able to connect with her IE having similar interests, hashkafa…whatever. like i said its not nogea yet so i have a few years until i have to actually worry about all this…but i suppose its something to think about 😛